EDIT! I have finally double checked this post and have edited it. Sorry for the bad post earlier.
The picture above is Chambers Bay golf course and it is so beautiful. Chambers Bay is inTacoma and I wish I had been here today. I wasn’t there but I was on the golf course, that is why I wasn’t at work on Friday. I took some time to go down to Tacoma and spend some quality time with my good friend Don. Kelley needed to come down to spend some time with her mom, so I went golfing with Don and really it was to get him out of Kelley’s mom’s way.
Don is 74 and is about the most cantankerous guy I know. He is also the funniest guy I know, but I think it is because he is so damn cantankerous!
Don is one of those guys who when he got out of the Army, never wanted to work for anyone else, so has since always been self employed. He understands what kind of commitment it takes to run a business and has some good perspective and advice for me everytime I see him. He also has a lot of advice for my golf game. I try and listen to it all and keep what seems the most sincere and throw out the chatter. He also has emphasema so we take a cart and drive it right up to the ball. Don also has emphasema so he must have oxygen on his back in a backpack for the entire round. He can’t get upstairs to take care of himself, but he can play 18 holes and flirt with the woman who operates the beer hole.
The older I get, the more I find I learn when I least expect to and mostly by just observing. Here is what I learned today from Don by what he said: “Keep your elbow in and don’t pull the club back so far when you swing. You can control it better when it dosen’t go back so far.” and ” Getting old is not for sissys!”
What I learned today from observation: It is more important to spend time doing what you love than doing what you think you have to. You don’t know how long you are going to be around and the stuff you ‘have’ to do pretty much can wait.
As I carried both sets of our clubs to the car, I also learned that growing old really isn’t for sissy’s.
Have a great weekend!